Is This About Union?

*Is This About Union?*

*Is This About Union?*

In all of the relationships that I have been I have always found myself over compensating at the beginning, I would show my prowess in the kitchen, I would show extra attention to my partner and I did everything possible to impress them and get the validation that I want it from them, at that point in time I wasn't really aware that I was still looking for validation from external sources!

I realized later that I created a behavior that wasn't sustainable, my partner would completely rely on me and expected things to be done by me, now this is pure speculation but I think that their thought was that I liked to do it so they wouldn't do it themselves leaving me doing most of the work, now I live in a house, so at the moment I need a Roommate as the rent is really high, and I took upon me to constantly buy what is needed for the house, redecorating, cleaning and keeping the house as I like it, therefore the roommate decided that I love to do it and decide not to do any cleaning or taking care of the house, you see in our society most have a myopic way of seeing things, most people tend to think in very simplistic way such as , he or she loves to do that so I will let them do what they love, now don't get me wrong, there are those who get upset if you do what they like to do

So the thing that you need to make clear from the beginning of any relationship that you love to do certain things or that you like to keep things a certain way and that they are welcome to help you with it, you see, this might seem unimportant to some, but as this occurs more and more, it could mean the undoing of the relationship because it makes the person feel unseen, overlooked and taken for granted

But who is the victim here? The one that is not intellectually understanding the other one's position, because they, let's face it have a very limited self-awareness and therefore they think honestly that you love doing it all and they don't want to disrupt it!

So there is no need to villainize someone who doesn't have the intellectual capacity to understand why you do what you do and doesn't want to disturb the flow or the peace

It is time for us to be completely open and say for example, I like to clean because it is therapeutic for me, but if I don't do it, please feel free to do it too to help me out, and of course you can do it with other duties as well, but from the beginning you need to make things clear as expecting it from the other party will surely lead you into disappointment. Most of the time we ourselves create our own disappointments because in the pursuit of being seen as perfect we Pigeon hole ourselves into situations we can't get out of, and it is time that we understand that this situations are of our own making

And remember that this applies to work as well, when we have the inability to ask for more help, to ask our boss for a new hire to help you with the tons of work that you have, but you have probed to them that you can do it all on your own because you wanted to impress them, you find yourself in that same situation

Learn to speak your wants and needs and once and for all confront the fear of disappointing others! If you don't, you will be a prisoner to a reality that you created for yourself!

I love you so much!

-Ariel Vega

our own created matrix

*our own created matrix*

*our own created matrix*

A couple of days ago, I was doing some shadow work at home, and the cards that came up were the 5 of Pentacles next to the 4 of Pentacles! I asked Spirit what did it mean? And it told me the following, you created money and financial issues in the past to keep you in a loop of victimization, lack and suffering. Am I crazy?! WHAT?!

I thought about that message and realized that it was a truth, you see throughout my working life, even when I did well financially in the past, I realized that I made poor financial decisions that always led me to get into debt or put myself into uncomfortable situations, and looking back on it they were my own decisions. So I always had some sort of financial issue going on, now I never looked at it from the perspective that Spirit gave me that night.

I realized that my financial issues and the way in which I related to Money created all of this distraction, preventing me from living the life that I always wanted and it robbed me of my joy, as I was always focusing on the lack there of or my financial obligations that were pressing at the time, so even if I had money coming in it was never enough!

So, I thought to myself, Spirit is onto something here, so the next morning, I came across a Tarot reading on YouTube for my sign Pisces that gave me the confirmation, as the reader told me that I needed to look into my finances and how to handle them better and that it was a huge distraction for my journey!

It also dawned on me that the same was for my health! So do we all do this? And the answer is YES! We all have some issue that we use to keep us trapped in a loop! To some it might be endlessly dating and not finding the right partner, for some it might be finances, health issues, family drama etc.

Unconsciously sometimes we get trapped into loops that are keeping us from living the life that we always wanted, that is because this loops are so sneaky! We go about life sometimes thinking that this is just the hand that life gave us! And, NO! it isn't, first and foremost always know that you have the power to change any circumstances and that we are not under any obligation to participate if we don't want to! You see, family drama was never my thing as I am not close to either side of the family, neither my Mom's or my Dad's, I was the outspoken black sheep, so from a very young age I wasn't really liked so I had a very firm boundary with my parents, I told them that I did not want to know any gossip or information about their families, I was not interested

When it came to relationships, I was always pretty happy being single for long periods after I came out of a relationship, so I never proactively looked for relationships, so no loop there. Until I realized this month that my biggest loop was staring back at me in a stand off much like a Spaghetti Western, I was looking at it at high noon waiting for it to draw its pistol, the sand was kicking up and there where tumble weeds. I was finally staring at my biggest loop , and it was staring back at me

I am now taking better care of my finances and taking full responsibility for the poor decision making that created some of the financial woes I have faced in the past and making the necessary reparations now, but at the same time, I am now creating more abundance that will lead me to the life that I always envisioned myself having by closely monitoring my expenses and creating new ways to heal any past financial issues, you see when we can clearly see our loops they no longer have any power over us, so now we are free to pursue the life that we always wanted it!

Tell me in the comment section what are your loops, and what steps are you taking to get out of them!

I love you all so much!

-Ariel Vega

the intensity is palpable

Hello my beautiful Love tribe!

I just realized that we are entering into a time of intensification and as you might have noticed

this might have presented itself as a missed opportunity, a friendship or relationship fallout, job loss etc.

I know that to some those may be absolute calamities, but trust me when I say this, those are rederctions or recalibrations

Now as some of you might already know if you derail from your main goal the Universe has to correct it and redirect you back to your journey or purpose, so if you per say enter a new relationship out of feeling lonely and the Universe feels like you are entering a codependent type relationship because you entered out of fear of being alone then they will remove you from it, so it might manifest as the other party ghosting you, a visceral break up, or just the dynamic between the two of you turns sour. so the Universe does this because it knows that a better, healthier relationship is on the way to you so they remove the impediment or blockage to guarantee your success! So it is an absolute act of love and care on the Universe's behalf! Unfortunately we are heavily conditioned in our society that whatever we want is up to us to create, but as we understand more intimately the workings of not only the Universe but our guides, angels and spirit team we begin to wake up to the understanding that it is more of a team effort. So we begin to release resistance, trust the process and learn to flow

Now trust me when I say that it is not an easy feat! I understand! It is years worth of conditioning that need to be demolished in order to fully trust and release, but it is something that you need to work on now! take it one day at a time and be very compassionate if you find yourself reverting to where you where.

As fore-mentioned the same example applies to a job that you take out of fear or a friendship in which you entered because the other person felt stronger than you and you entered the friendship to make an alliance per say and the Universe wants you to be strong on your own, or you entered a friendship with the premise of trauma bonding

So as we enter this time of intensification of our journey into a deeper purpose the lower quality or lower vibrational dynamics that are still keeping you distracted are inevitably being removed, now I strongly advise against defaulting into victimhood and become more aware of why this dynamics are in fact being removed from your immediate reality so that you do not repeat any past patterns! A couples of things that you should remind yourself on an everyday basis is that nothing is a coincidence in this realm, there is no such thing as luck but there is such thing as alignment, this two things will be of tremendous help at this time!

You are now entering the pupate state. In Butterflies they enter the chrysalis or cocoon, in the process the caterpillar dissolves itself into a nutrient rich soup that only retains the cellular memory of butterfly parts that will form later on, but first the dissolution of the caterpillar has to take place

So you see, you have to dissolve all conditioning and past personality traits in order to create the butterfly that you are becoming, so much like the caterpillar the Universe has to dissolve all of that you knew at a lesser version of yourself to become the finalized glorious version that you are becoming, it’s just natural!

Do not let the fear of what is to come stop this beautiful transformation you are undergoing right now. All of this is orchestrated by the Universe with absolute love right now! Trust the genius of the events unfolding in your life right now, this is the time to release and learn to flow! You got this!

I love you!

-Ariel Vega

What is reality anyways?!

What is reality my love? I ask you this because for many years I thought that what I see is all that is! But I as I began my spiritual journey into the unknown I realized that the action wasn't in the physical, but in the energy realms, well there are so many names to this energy void of creation, the most noted being Abraham Hicks "the Vortex". Indeed this vortex of creation that can be accessed at anytime is where our focal point should go everyday.

Setting up times exclusively for visualization works for most and for some of us who have a more vivid imagination, any downtime we have we can just drift into visualization! If you have a more structured personality then set aside times dedicated specially to visualization, I suggest that you use morning as soon as you wake up, and in the evening before bed, focus your visualization  on what it is that you want in your life, example: if you want a new apartment and you wish to move, focus on the new apartment down to the smallest detail, what does the kitchen have and what does it look like? Does it have a breakfast bar? Picture yourself drinking your morning cup of coffee on it! Look out the window, what kind of view do you have? How do you feel as you look out the window?

Another of my clients favorite examples: MONEY , imagine yourself making the largest deposit at an ATM, one that needs you to reload five or six times the money into the slot because it only takes $300 at a time. And look at the screen as you load up the money and see your balance be the highest possible that you can believe for yourself! The sun shines through the glass window of the bank, and as you get your receipt with your balance picture yourself smiling as you walk out of the branch and the sun is so bright you have to put on your sunglasses!

You see reality is what we make of it, the Universe is always waiting for a command of what do you want to experience next! Even Science has discovered that nothing is solid in this reality as it appears to our human eyes, when looking at atoms we now understand that they are in constant motion and constantly changing, so what appears to be solid is not until you touch it, please don’t walk into a wall to experiment the theory! Lol!!! As things are made to feel real, so it will hurt!

So as you can see, touch is a form of focus, when you touch a table you are focusing on it so it is solid to you, and to everyone that focuses on it

So creation is part of being a human, so if you put your focus and intention into a new home, money, or a new love interest, that is you commanding the Universe that it is what you want to experience next, so it will have to create it for you! So as you can see the action is happening constantly in the unseen!!! 

So in conclusion, who are we to say that we are not progressing into the success that you  envisioned for yourself? Ah!!!! You are focusing on your current situation!!! GUILTY!!! There is nothing in your current situation that will show you what is coming your way but small signals from the Universe and breadcrumbs that they are leaving for you to know that you are making progress. And again, who are you to say that your success is not guaranteed?! You lack humility my friend, have faith that the commands that you put in are in the works currently and keep focusing on what you want to experience next, do not judge your current situation, all that your current situation is, is the manifestation that you created when you thought of yourself as powerless and victimized by your circumstances, it takes the same amount of creation power to create a powerless version of yourself as it takes to create a more empowered version of you! So, use your power wisely!

I love you so much!!!! You got this!

-Ariel Vega

Hello, My Beautiful Love Tribe!

We’re all going through a period of intense change right now – the old ways of doing things are being burned away by the pandemic and the current political climate. Which is both exhilarating and scary.

 Big News

As such, I’m writing this to announce that I am now following my calling of being a spiritual healer full time! It is my passion to help people find abundance, happiness and what real Love actually is.

 I have re-branded my website, www.arielvega.love , launched a Patreon, www.patreon.com/arielvega and am re-focusing my Instagram, instagram.com/arielvega111

 The History

When I was 19 I started my career as a makeup artist. I had a passion for fashion from a very early age, and so it was right up my alley. For me, the most fulfilling aspects were the reactions of my clients when they felt beautiful. Having beautiful hair and makeup gave them confidence, and they felt that they could conquer the world. However, that those feelings were fleeting as sooner or later they had to remove makeup off and go back to everyday life.

 Unbeknownst to me, I was being guided into my life purpose. After doing hair and makeup for more than a decade, I realized that I wanted to help my clients feel like they were superhuman even after they removed the makeup. 

 It was then that my spiritual journey truly started.

 After a traumatic break up, I became curious about reading Tarot, and began to see the potential of using the cards as a healing tool. For me, the cards uncovered what was hiding deep in my subconscious. Through Tarot, I learned what parts of myself I needed to work on, confront and fully accept. I was healing my past traumas and feeling so liberated because of it! 

 I finally realized the way to empower myself, and therefore I could help others empower themselves. When I started working with other people on spiritual healing, I found that the fulfillment and satisfaction that I got far surpassed my passion for hair and makeup. 

 I became increasingly curious about other healing modalities that I could incorporate into my  practice. I dedicated my free time into learning new techniques and discovered that I had the ability to channel higher knowledge. 

 A New Reality

When I realized that I had access to the Universe’s infinite potential, I knew that the information wasn't mine, that I needed to share it with everyone. If I could learn how to heal, find joy and understand what true unconditional love is, I needed to share it with everyone. 

I truly believe that we, as humanity, are moving into a new reality. We are moving into a more loving and peaceful reality, a world with abundance for all. We all have access to unlimited resources, and I knew that most of the information that I channeled from the Universe would help us get to a new reality. When we learn to truly love, forgive, to be abundant and financially sound, we were better equipped to be receptive to higher knowledge. Most importantly we become better humans. Our true nature is loving and abundant, so I knew I had to teach others the knowledge of how to access those energies.

 Getting Out of Our Own Way

The question of my entire life was to find the true meaning of love. The current romanticized Hollywood version wasn't enough for me - I knew that there was more to it. Self-help books and internet gurus couldn’t help me find what I was looking for. As I tapped into the infinite knowledge of the universe, I realized that the same goes for success and finances. I realized that resources are infinite and that we can all live happy, fulfilled and abundant lives. The resources are out there waiting for us to access them, we just need to get out of our own way!

That is what I’m doing right now. It has taken me years to trust the Universe, that it’s ok to be a spiritual healer for a living, and that if I jump, the Universe will catch me. Additionally, I have had to redefine my definition of success – What will people think of this new life path of mine?

This transition is not easy, I am not going to lie. Not only do I have to trust the Universe, but I have to trust myself as the creator of my own reality! I realize now that living this journey is something that I have to go through in order for me to teach the lessons the Universe is giving me. All of my life is synchronistic, and I have learned beautiful lessons that have helped me become an amazing manifestor, and give me the ability to teach it!!!

Come with me on this journey to live your best life. I am on it, and I want everyone to come with me.

I love you all so much!

We Got Tricked

I used to years ago watch this conspiracy theory channels on YouTube and I used to get so angry because I was always upset what the media was trying to sell me, what the school system told me, and who I was told by family and peers told me who I was.

I was so angry!

Through the years I learned that anger wouldn’t help as people always respond to someone who is angry and disseminating the information as some crazy conspiracy theorist! And that I assure you I am not. All that one has to do is do the research!

But as I look back through history, I understand that for millennia humanity loved to be told what to believe in and what to think, as we study through most imperialistic systems and religious beliefs there is always a need for salvation, so thousands of years ago we relinquished our own power to Kings or Queens, or in the religious realm salvation or deliverance of all sins through a savior.

Wow, the best cop out! I don’t need to take any responsibility for my actions if I confess my sins, or I don’t have to think for myself because there is a law decreed by another human being who is as flawed as I am, but I will take that law because I don’t have to do any extra work by thinking for myself.

For me that never applied because from a young age I always asked why, which I am not going to lie, it got me into some much trouble at school, because I always asked WHY, so I was deemed a problem child who was extremely insubordinate, when I saw myself full of love and always ready to give love to others, but because of my behavior I was a loner, and became extremely good at playing by myself and create this elaborate fantasy worlds and hang out with my Grandmother all the time, because in her I found unconditional love.

I had to understand from an early age that I did not belong because I did not believe in salvation yet to come but to love and live in the moment with those who are in front of me, but because I was extremely effeminate I couldn’t get close to either my father or my brother, or any of the other men in my family.

So from a very early age I already understood that by not conforming to others it was going to be a very lonely experience, and I made my final choice, I did not care that I didn’t have any friends, so I found solace in my being alone and playing alone, I got a break when I was in High-school as being rebellious at that age was viewed as normal so I can expertly camouflage my behavior  so I had a group of close friends, but when I moved to the US I was in the last of my teen years, so my twenties was about finding a career that I loved and so I did, so in my 20s I was really trying to cultivate friendships and I didn’t really focus on romantic relationships, in my 30s I caved into the pressures of society, and got married, divorced and had a slew of failed relationships, but I did learn so much from my partners, all of them were great teachers and contributed one way or another into my spiritual growth.

So in my 40s I learned that love the way that I was looking for wasn’t there to be found in the conventional societal way, at least not for me, this is not criticism it is just not me. So going back to what I said earlier, there are more things going on not only in our political climate, in our history, and where humanity was kept in the dark, and this things need to come out to light, as uncomfortable as they will be  trust me, I was on the other side where uncomfortable was all that I knew, but let me tell you that in retrospective, through my lone journey I discovered that so much love was there! More that I could have even think of! Through my lone journey I met so many incredibly loving people that guided me showed me unconditional love and protected by an ever loving Universe!

You see I realized that the moment that you become curious the Universe supports your journey! And the journey gets juicier, loving and filled with joy!!!

So do not ever fear un-comfortability, as through un-comfortability we reach a point of revolution through discovery, fear will always keep you exactly where you are! Love will always lead you to the road of discovery, and through discovery is when we find ourselves.

Only and only then we can ascend to a higher frequency! Do not fear disappointment, heartbreak, as through those emotions we truly connect to our humanity, do your research and stay informed, within yourself and within the society that you live in, do not take anything at face value, believe no one and do your own research!

I love you all so much!

love obsessed

I woke up this morning and I received a message, I started seeing why do we become “Love Obsessed“ as a collective, well…is it love? Or is it romanticizing?

 As I observe our society we are very prone to romanticize not only our partners but situations and places as well, we become nostalgic of the past as we say “in the good ol’ days” as if today is disappointing and it is not good at all, things in the past were better, so we romanticize the past. 

We watched “Sleepless in Seattle” a million times and think that love is that way, so we run into constant disappointment with our partners because they are not like the movie, they are not romantic enough,

In reality that is not only fiction but it also is a very packaged and curated version of what love is! Unconditional love is that, unconditional, we learn to love our partners, lovers, friends and family members for who they are and we stop trying to change them, then you are learning to love unconditionally, and listen, if you decide that the relationship is not satisfying enough then leave the relationship, people don’t have to change for us, we are the change, if we don’t like something then leave, if being in a situation or relationship that is making you uncomfortable then you are supposed to leave, remember you are the change.

I have clients that come to me for tarot readings and keep asking about the same person over and over, some have been chasing the same person for years, but no relationship yet! Most people would have left when they saw that things weren’t going anywhere, so why do this clients still want an outcome with someone they clearly know is not that into them? Well, the answer is very clear, they are not really in love with the person, they are in love with the dynamic, they are comfortable in the suffering, and addicted to the chase, and deep down they don’t believe that they deserve any better.  

And I am culpable of that! A few years ago I dated this guy for a short period of time and when we broke up I became obsessed with him and it took almost three years to release the idea of him, and I remember the faithful day that this tarot reader told me, this guy and you are never going to get back together! And I am so grateful to her as she took me out of my madness, and there began my spiritual awakening, and I am so glad it all happened the way it did and I am eternally thankful to this guy as he became one of my greatest teachers, I thank Mr. R for what he facilitated for me!

All of this happened in 2014, and it opened me up to learn love unconditionally again! I forgave my parents once and for all and  learned to love them for who they are, and many more times were I learned to forgive and I learned to love again but most importantly  I learned that I am love and that it doesn’t exist outside of me! I love everyone in my life, my friends and all of my clients, my family and all of those whom I come across synchronistically. 

We are love, all of us and we exist in love, it is time for us to stop looking for love outside of ourselves and let true love come into my life, our perfect partner will find us the moment that we find ourselves!

I love you all!!!

Dear John

When we love unconditionally with all of our heart we truly love, if someone leaves our life because the lesson that they where bringing into your life culminated, it is ok to feel sad when they leave, but wouldn’t it be more appropriate to celebrate what they brought into your life! Celebrate them and send them absolute love. Let your guides and the Universe know that you are grateful for the beautiful experience! After all they helped you orchestrate the whole thing and created the synchronicities that led you to the person!

Also this means that you are opened to love and that love is ever flowing! So more love is on the way! And so it is!

The celebration truly means that you are opening space for a new love to come into your life!

So today dear John, I thank you for the beautiful lessons, and I do remeber the great times that we had! I love you, and I celebrate our time together! Thank you for being in my life! And now I release you. In this game we call life we can choose how to learn our lessons, we can learn through suffering, or we can learn through love, the latter is easier because even if we are in pain, we can learn that we are capable of being love, but when we choose to learn from suffering we elongate the healing process, and to tell you the truth in all honesty, you never heal, because the biggest part of healing is to love and forgive, then and only then we truly heal!

You see dear John, I left the suffering paradigm years ago, and I choose to love, and learn with love from now on! I love you! Goodbye my love!